“Dancing, prancing, singing and looking glam won’t be too difficult after everything else........”
Faye’s Story
I am so proud to have been a MOTR model in both 2016 and 2018. I am also very privileged to be on Team Rockerteers for the 2021 event on October 16th.
A quick update for those new to MOTR - I was diagnosed in 2012 with breast cancer following a routine mammogram – no signs or symptoms. Despite a rather over-optimistic initial assessment I ended up having chemotherapy, a mastectomy and 18 sessions of IV Herceptin treatment. I eventually returned to work full-time in April 2014 to a role that I loved. My post as NHS Consultant Midwife was subsequently made redundant (a very stressful process) in October 2015 and I took retirement in January 2016.
I then had a Diep-Flap Breast Reconstruction that month, two and a half years after my mastectomy. Apparently my back wasn’t fat enough (eh?) to do that procedure. But my abdomen had plenty to spare (what a cheek) so my new boob was/is previously my tummy. So don’t believe the myth that your tits always gravitate downwards as we get older (silver lining and all that). And for anyone who is considering having a reconstruction you are very welcome to view my fabulous results - for a small donation to Maggie’s of course!
And thankfully I am not now on any current cancer treatment.
So where am I now nearly 9 years after my diagnosis? While it has been a roller coaster I’m in a much better place and still getting used to a very different pace of life. I go swimming as much as I can (free for those of a certain age) and important pursuits such as manicures and shopping (depending on COVID ). My only son Theo was 15 the day after I had my mammogram and he is now a strapping young man of nearly 24 and beginning his final year at university in Bristol. During lockdown I have been busy spending any inheritance he might receive in the future on a fantastic kitchen extension!
I knew about the Maggie’s Centres before ours was built so was thrilled to know we would soon have one locally. However I was very fortunate to have had psychological support/supervision for my NHS role and when I was in treatment that continued. And I still do now privately to help me make sense of the profound changes in my life.
The huge team at Maggie’s and The Christie and marvellous Margo Cornish are dedicated to ensuring that the fantastic service that Maggie’s offers will continue to grow and support so many others. The Charity Fundraising is so important to the ongoing future service provision.
Keeping in touch with my MOTR friends since 2016/2018 has been immensely important to me over the last few years and continues to be so. We meet up when we can and have a fun time – it’s certainly not all doom and gloom! When things are tough, bad or sad there is always a listening ear and a hug waiting.
Friendships have been made that will last forever. I’m really looking forward to meeting with both new and old friends very soon. Dancing, prancing, singing and looking glam won’t be too difficult after everything else...............
